On 15 May 2025, Sonke Gender Justice, in partnership with the Western Cape Men’s Sector and the South African National AIDS Council, hosted a groundbreaking Provincial Men’s Dialogue at the Western Cape Provincial Parliament under the theme “Better Man for Tomorrow.’’ The dialogue brought together provincial leaders, religious and cultural leaders, youth, and civil society to address the root causes of Gender-Based Violence, rising HIV infections, and the critical role of men in building safer and healthier communities. The event served as a call to action urging men to reflect, take responsibility, and actively contribute to change.
Men from different walks of life, joined by civil society organizations, traditional and religious leaders, and youth from Manenburg and Gugulethu High School, shared personal testimonies and powerful appeals for accountability. They spoke about prevalent issues in their communities such as GBV, drug abuse, gang violence, and the silence that allows injustice to persist. The youth who shared their experiences reminded attendees of the urgent need to create safe spaces, to equip boys with knowledge and tools, and to uplift the next generation before violence takes root. Speakers emphasized the urgent need to empower boys through education, sport, skills development, and early intervention. The Deputy Speaker of Parliament, Reagen Ivan Allen, emphasized that “a child in sport is a child out of trouble.’’ The forum also addressed systemic issues such as cultural abuse, institutional accountability, and the lack of a support structure for vulnerable men and boys
Sonke reaffirmed its commitment to hosting the ongoing Men’s Sector activities and advancing the “Better Man for Tomorrow” campaign. A key outcome of the dialogue was the agreement to expand these conversations across all districts, with a focus on youth development, prevention, and government accountability for delayed justice in GBV cases. Sonke reiterated that men must not only speak out but also act.
‘’Being a better man for tomorrow means being a better father, a better partner, and an active participant in community change, self-reflection and stepping up with integrity and responsibility is also very important,’’ said Sikhangele Mabulu, Sonke’s Men’s Wellness Centre Coordinator.
Culture and religion, which are often used as a shield for harmful behaviors, were called into question, with a firm declaration that there is no excuse for abuse. The meeting made a call for churches to be regulated and for traditional practices to align with health and safety standards, protecting children from exploitation.
Participants left the dialogue with a renewed sense of urgency and purpose, recognizing that change requires more than talk. It demands consistent action, community collaboration, and government accountability. Among the key takeaways was the commitment to replicate these conversations across all districts, with a special focus on empowering the boy child. “The dialogue also resolved to push for school holiday camps, men’s wellness campaigns, and justice for postponed GBV cases that too often result in repeat offences’’ Mabulu said.
As Sonke continues to host and support men’s sector activities in the province, this dialogue marked a significant step forward. It was a reminder that while the road to justice and healing is long, it begins with collective will. The time is now for men to rise, not in dominance, but in dignity,to build and be part of a community where safety, respect and accountability define what it means to be a man.
